THE JOY OF EVERY MAN

The joy of every guy is to have the girl of his dream, I mean the kind of lady who stand the chance to contain all the qualities he desire….

Searching down my little world, I found a lady whose beauty I classify as majestic, so alluring, authentic and best defined.

Within a blink of an eye, I set my attention towards her moves by being proactive in talking and expressing myself towards her.

Behind her smile is a notorious happiness flowing like a slap of water, she slashes my heart and tend to wear away my ego.

Talking to her for the first time i start to wonder could this be real….

She pranked me by being frown which appeared to happened and seems never to be controlled by her thoughts alone.

Her words ever remains encouraging for it slams like a rhythm in my soul what a moment.

Thanks for being spiritual for it prompt me to wave even in an empty view, Oops! I never cease to address her as my seraphy although she bears her real names in my physical realm.

I never can’t wait to overshadow her personality counting down her steps to success with a pride of an axillary movement.

I never can’t say she’s perfect but to justify in creep days, she own the atmosphere with no doubt.

I can’t say she’s beautiful but to justify, she’s the most beautiful I have ever seen.

I can’t say she’s brainy but to justify, she’s the most brilliant girl I ever seen.

I can’t say she’s successful but to justify, she’s the most auspicious person I ever seen.

I can’t say she own the best smile but to justify, she’s the most happiest person I ever seen.  This is just a ryhme straight from my heart…..

AN OPEN LETTER TO THE VC (ADSU- MUBI)

Dear VC,
If you carefully check out 
my profile, you will realise
that i'm an educational
critic who sees and monitor
people by the words they
speak and the action they
take. Before i continue, i
will like to appreciate Adsu
for finding me worthy to
study political science which
i never for once regretted.

For the short time i have
been to your governed institution
(Adsu) i never skipped nor failed
to attend any event in the
campus which had concerned
you to present a speech and
at sametime your publications
in the dailys where i do
spent time to make sure i get
each point you brighted out.

As an open researcher, i have
been to over thousand profiles
of successful men and women in
Nigeria but i was amazed i found
non graduated from
Adsu and i tend to wonder
could adsu be what people
are assuming out there.....

The last time i made
an anlysis on this same
platform (adamawa state university campus website),
i was able to state it clearly
that in today's world, a well defined university is being
rank and graded base on
what it produces to the society, the country and the world
at large. We need to focus
on what's hindering our
students in making up
good grades could it
be our marking scheme
or the effect of lack of
structures or lecturers.

In the recent VC and students meeting, you made
mention of "in adsu,
we are in need of over
70 workers ranging from
lecturers" the question is
if an institution like Adsu
will lack workers in such
capacity than what are
we trying to produce.
One lecturer taking 5
courses how do you
expect the grades of
students should be.

Now we have a new VC
which some classified
him as an acting he strive
the polity to make things
right all i want from you
is to correct the mistakes
made by those who are
careless to see the potential
and the future coming
better still i want to bring
your attention to the talks
of mativation that "In all
you do, some will tend to
like you while some will
look forward to bring you
down" sure you're there
as a VC to make your goals
real remember i will still write again..
(Long live ADSU)

Trials (Written by Maavi)

I feel like I'm drowning in these so many sorrows,
It's so dark now; will I be able to find tomorrow?
I'm finding it so hard to breathe when I'm feeling
hollow,
trying to run so far away from the devils that
follow.
Life is a climb and I don't think I can climb
anymore,
the rope is burning my hands and they now feel
sore.
I can't feel the strength in my arms to open a
new door,
I want to give up and just go back to the way it
was before.
I feel suffocated, under these burdens I am
subjugated,
too many trials to face and tribulations cultivating.
The rhythm in my heart is now only fluctuating,
losing it's melody to darkness, the poetry is
undulating.
Life isn't always dark and gloomy as stories tell,
there isn't just tribulations or a destination of hell.
There is purity to be found under the darkness,
and even love under all of the pain that we felt.
There is light that appears at the rise of the
shining sun,
and one glance of it will cause us to forget why
we run.
Hell isn't the only place to exist; there is a haven
above,
Heaven we call it, the truest sanctity of
blessings and love.
To find the good we must face and fight the bad,
No matter how hard it may be but tests are to
be had.
It is to prove you are deserving of peace and
bliss,
Of such a life to live that never again shall you be
sad.

IF JESUS RETURN KILL HIM AGAIN -Darwin Bedford

Many people today are deeply suffering
in life it’s simply because they are more
ignorant and never wish to revamp,
They all know the entire truth but they
prefer to hide under the unbrella of
less sincerity and foolish thoughts
which always bring nothing but regrets
PSALM 14:1 .
Don’t be supprise to hear people like
this…
In the world of David bedford a british
columbia man who title himself
ATHEIST MESSIAH, has undertaken a
personal campaign against the
presenbe of Christianity in public life,
after changing his name to Darwin
Bedford.
Darwin held his campaign on 20 march
2004 with a hash tag:

#IF JESUS RETURN, KILL HIM AGAIN.

He further more bright out that
It’s Wrong to Let Them
Believe
The world needs to take a
big step back from itself
and have a good laugh. The
time for the paradigm shift
regarding religion is now.
Let’s face it — Jesus was
only a man. 2000 years
have gone by with bloody
conflicts over what the
truth was about him and
what he had said. According
to historians his story
wasn’t even original. Only
son of a god! Ha! Ha!
Sacrificed for forgiveness of
our sins! Double ha ha!
Yes people, it’s wrong to let
people continue to believe.
Look what’s happening in
America today. We have
the rich (some of whom are
religious) protecting their
wealth by supporting
religious freaks in
government (some of
whom are rich) who are out
to kill Muslims and steal
their oil. We have created a
monster government that
doesn’t want people to
enjoy marijuana or marry
who they want. They even
want women who don’t
want a child to bare them
anyway and it’s all because
of what it says in a book.
Everything said in the
context of God being real is
mere nonsense — including

“the Bible is the word of
God.” So let’s have some
fun throwing it out. We
need to write to our
politicians. We need to
convince them that Jesus
has caused enough
suffering in the world from
parading around as a son of
a god and from his general
lying. We need national
governments to commit to
executing Jesus Christ
should he ever return.
Now you might not think
that a campaign to kill a
man that is already dead
has any merit. However, it
would show to the world
that people do not fear
retribution from gods. If
enough people keep
hounding the government
to say that they will indeed
kill Jesus should he return
then eventually a grand
feeling of relief will come
over the world and the
world will be able to
concern itself with Earth
being an everlasting
paradise.
Begging to be your leader,
-Darwin Bedford
MAY GOD FORGIVE THOSE WHO DON’T
KNOW WHAT THEY ARE DOING.

LIVE BEYOND YOUR FEAR

As a writer, i have been to
different places, met different
people, engaged in different
activities. For years i learnt
from people's situation and
experiences i mean different
lessons that controls, guide
and direct my attempts in life
but the problem i have with
some individuals is the "motion
of fear"

  Many people today are living in
fear they tend to execute the
characteristic of the decade slaves

  Many are tired of being broke,
tired of being depressed, tired
of being stressed, tired of being
disgraced by their younger once
and some are tired of being
embarrassed by friends and
wish to be justify by success.

  No human is born with any
form of fear for this emotion
are produced base on expectation,
perceptions and mindset.

  Many of us are much involved in
the present, we devout too much
on our attention, thinking and
concern with our today. We
depend on false ideologies
and false thoughts of BC
and AD, we compare our distance
 journey with others whom
we have no idea on how
they ascertain to be where
they are presently.
Face your own story and
Make your little world
A paradise one can

Admire.

DEAR LADIES

i just want
to remind you that
He’s not perfect. You
aren’t either, and the
two of you will never
be perfect. But if he can
make you laugh at least
once, causes you to think
twice, and if he admits to
being human and making
mistakes, hold onto
him and give him the most
you can. He isn’t
going to quote poetry, he’s
not thinking about
you every moment, but he
will give you a part of
him that he knows you could
break. Don’t hurt
him, don’t change him, and
don’t expect for
more than he can give.
Don’t analyze. Smile
when he makes you happy,
yell when he makes
you mad, and miss him
when he’s not there. Love
hard when there is love to
be had. Because perfect guys
don’t exist, but there’s always
one guy that is perfect for you.

SPEAKING IN PUBLIC

One of the major aspect of life is how

you blend and speak in public.

Some individuals finds it difficult to

express and socialize themselves in

public simply because the fail to

understand the principles on how to

speak in public which sometime hinders

their positive contribution.

No doubt as it’s well said that nobody is

perfect but what step are you taking

towords improving yourself.

Here are some reasons why some in

individual fail to speak in public.

(1) FEAR OF POINT CONDEMNATION:

Although it’s well known that what ever

you do in life some will like it while

others will not but anyway we all learn

from our mistakes therefore never allow

someone to take your anxiety when you

wish to speak.

(2) FEAR OF USING WRONG WORDS:

Some people think a statement without

grammers is never complete but here i

prove you wrong because the main

quality of a statement is the point you

make.

It’s better you hit the nail on the head

by expressing the normal words you do

know and communicate sensibly.

PUBLIC SPEAKING

(3) COMPLAISANT: This is one of the

negative effect of not speaking in public

because must individuals always speaks

what will please others without minding

their point of communication to others

around which in absence of those they

pleased, they can’t speak anymore.

(4) APPROACH: Here sometimes the

approach you give to people determines

your mystery speech and at sametime

gives people the zeal to pay more

attention to what you say.

(5) MANNERS: When speaking in public,

the way you behave matters alot for

example you are holding a cigerette at

hand in public and at sametime you are

telling somebody taking cigerette is not

good, expressing such manner in public

while doing the wrong alone condemns

your speech.

NOTE=> Where ever you find yourself

never fail to express your real self cause

it’s better to be corrected by a wise

than to be praise by a fool.

SOMETIMES IN LIFE

Sometimes,
you want things to happen at your own
time and desire without taking a special
step to promote your sensible ideology
on how life should be.

-Sometimes,
you seems never to accept the truth
rather you prefer pointing out finger
and blaming people around you for your
ignorant.

-Sometimes,
you fail to recognise you world as your
priority but stick with the wrong people
and adapt with their own life style.

-Sometimes,
you neglect the right time to develop
the principles of nature to improve your
style of being.

-Sometimes,
you fail to discover your potentials
rather you prefer dancing with the tune
of fake friends who are being discribe as
hopeless.

-Sometimes,
you prefer being freckless than
advocating yourself and stick to your
purpose in life

-Sometimes,
you disobey the message of your
conscence thinking you are progressing
without being aware that you are still on
the wrong track.

-Sometimes,
you prefer temporary pleasure than to
stick with the zeal and hope fo the
eternal.

-Sometimes,
you allow circumstances to down fold
you without thinking of the huge task
you have ahead your life being.

-Sometimes,
you fail to learn from those who failed
but prefer to step with the risk of no
doubt.

-Sometimes,
you prefer to stop on the road and

throw stones on others without viewing
the distance of your journey.

-Sometimes,
you prefer skipping steps at your journey
neglecting the spirit of focus in your life.

OMG!! Never allow the negative back
side of life to treat you as it pleases
think positive.

MOTIVATION TODAY WITH VANDI

You use your imagination each day,
even if you think you don’t. No matter
how big or small your accomplishments
today, it all began in your imagination.
You can use it as much or as little as
you want, but it’s the starting point for
everything that happens in your life,
from what you eat, to what you wear, to
what you do.

It all begins as pictures in your mind. Be
sure to harness the full power of your
imagination to dream up bigger and
better things for yourself.
It’s the part of you that taps into the
infiniteness of the universe, so don’t
neglect it.

Remember, the power that is in you is
greater than the power of fear. When
thoughts come that say, “You’re not
able,” choose faith by saying, “I can do
all things through Christ who
strengthen me!

Everything in life has to come to an end
sometimes. It’s important to
acknowledge and accept the end of an
era – to walk away sensibly when
something has reached its conclusion.

Closing the door, turning the page,
moving on, etc. It doesn’t matter what
you call it; what matters is that you
leave the past where it belongs so you
can enjoy the life that’s still available to
be lived.
This ending is not THE END, it’s
just your life beginning again in a new
way. It’s a point in your story where one
chapter fades into the next…..

7 THINGS EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW ABOUT MEN

Men and women are created differently
by God.
Things that matter a lot to women don’t
matter as
much to men and vice versa, for the
most part.

Theories about men’s behavior have
evolved based on
studies conducted on men aged 18 to
22. Women
often complain that men’s behavior
seems odd to
them. Here are a few things women
should know
about men:

•ACTIONS SPEAKS LOUDER THAN
WORDS:
Men cannot read minds and they are
not as
expressive as most women are. Tell your
man what
you want and he will try to give you
that. Stop
expecting him to understand and fulfill
your
expectations on his own.
Tell him what you expect and want. For
example if
you want him to surprise you with a
special date
tell him you love it when he surprises
you with a
date.

•MEN WANT TO BE RESPECTED:
Men expect respect in public and in
private. They
excel when they know you trust and
admire them.
They want respect more than love. If
you respect
them, they will respect you, and will try
to
maintain that respect. After all, respect
is
something that can only be earned.
Shaunti
Feldhahn, nationally syndicated
newspaper
columnist, author, and speaker, showed
research
that shows men would rather withstand
loss of
loving feelings from their partners than
to lose
their respect.

•THEY ARE INSECURE:
Men are sensitive when it comes to their
role in
life, whether at work or at home as a
father and
husband. They are internally secretly
vulnerable,
which they will rarely admit. A woman
should
acknowledge her husband’s role which
makes him
more confident and secure. If you stop
giving him
affirmation he is likely to seek it
somewhere else.

•YOU DON’T NEED TO LOOK PERFECT:
It’s not necessary to always look like an
actress or
model, men like it simple and natural. If
he loves
you he is going to love at your worst.
You don’t
need to change your personality and
looks to
please him. Be yourself and he will
appreciate you
and your inner beauty. It is flattering to
take time
to dress up a little for special dates, so
keep
doing that, but you don’t need to spend
a lot of
time to get ready to go to the store.
•MEN NEED SPACE TOO:
Sometimes women become overly
solicitous and get
too involved so that men feel suffocated.
If your guy
is asking for some space don’t take it
personally,
he actually just needs space, it doesn’t
have
anything to do with you or your
relationship.
Taking time for yourself to do your own
thing is
healthy, you should enjoy some alone
time too.

•SELECTIVE HEARING:
Studies show men and women usually
have
different interests when it comes to
conversation
topics, women often talk about love,
relationships,
and other people while men find these
topics
boring, they appreciate ideas and
productive
topics. If you want a productive
conversation
discuss topics that interest both of you.

A FRIEND INDEED

Do you have a friend…i mean someone
who truly have those qualities to be
called a friend?

Friends are special gifts from God but
here God gave us the choice to choose
who to share our personality with.
There are many types of friends but
here i will concentrate on the negative
and the positive type of friend..

-NEGATIVE FRIENDS:
Are just like passengers passing through
your life and decided to get some rest
just to prepare for the next journey of no
direction.

They are never meant to be in your life,
they always pretend to be good outside
but they are more like evils inside.
They end up discouraging you from
being ambitious or following your
dreams by questioning what you do and
plant the seed of doubt in you. I mean
this are feackless people whose mission
is to turn your success to failure
because they belief in being lunatic
than being a toff OMG beware of
negative friends around you because
they may influence your life negatively
anyway you don't have to condemn
them totally because it's written
"Do Not Forsake Your Friends (Prov
27:10)"
rather you play your part and leave the
rest to God.

-POSITIVE FRIENDS:

This are people who can boldly define
themselves without reasonable doubt i
mean people with potentials, great
strivers, motivators and role models this
are people who never want to see you in
a wisful mood because they know your
value.

OMG could this be more than a relation
because they don't only rebound you
from negative hits you take in life but
they will always inspire you to be the
best you can what a real world!..
Are you wondering where to find such
friends? Now the solution is rightly in
you only if you can possess those
qualities that will admire them which
frew are mention below…
-Be a sincere person.
-Always smile.
-Be approachable.
-Use kind words when talking.
-Respect the young and the old.
-Keep rendering helps.
-Create time to chat with people.
-Set goals and make plans on how to
achieve them.
To all dreamers out there don’t ever
stop or let the world’s negativity
discenchant you or your spirit. If you
surround yourself with love and the
right people everything will be possible
with God.

MY LIFE JOURNEY

Hey friend what’s in your mind right
away, i mean are you thinking on how
to face the next episode of life or just
because you strived once and failed
thinking you are hopeless?

Sometimes our negative thoughts
affects our positive actions this is
because we neglected the main target
point on how our life is expected to be
due to some unnecessary short cuts.
You keep praying and wishing for
success everyday with no FOCUS and
still expecting miracles to happen
meanwhile you are the same person
delaying your journey.

I wonder sometimes we find life very
complicated and demanding we worked
up and for many it’s hard to sleep, we
are anxious, fearful and unsettled
meanwhile many lost hope and
confidence in themselves to be able to
deal with these issues and handle
challenges.

Most times i ask myself “those who
succeeded in life are they created
specially created than me by God but
along the way i realize that everybody
has his own ways of setting his goals
and make plans on how to achieve.
While others set theirs and forget about
it my question to you out there is that.
How do you set your own goals and
what plans are you doing to achieve it?

Everybody on earth is design with his/
her personal potentials but the issue
here is how do you possess yours?
Anyway never allow yourself to view and
accept the world as it’s painted and
design by your so called negative
friends out there who have nothing
positive to influence you with rather you
stick on how to build your own world.

REASONS WHY SOME PEOPLE ALWAYS ACHIEVE WHAT EVER THEY SET THEIR MINDS

Here are 7 reasons why some people
always achieve whatever they set their
mind to do:

1. They Take Action
Are you an action taker? Do you take
action to achieve whatever you aim to
and do it to the best of your ability?
Taking action is the first step you need
to take to achieve anything. Whatever
the outcome is; whether you make it to
the top of the world and achieve your
goals, or you fail badly, you still need to
take action. This is because if you do not
take action then we would not move
anywhere, especially forward, and
instead would stay where we are, just
still.
Always be smart to know what you want
out of your life, and start taking action.
Start taking control of your life and do
not let anyone control your life or take
action for you

2. They Are Surrounded By Positive
People;
Are you a person that surrounds
themselves with good, positive people?
Individuals that bring out the best of
you and help you with whatever you
need. People you can call true friends?
Well, as silly as it might seem to some,
this could actually be the reason why
some people have the ability to
accomplish whatever they set their
mind to. Yes, they are backed up by a
very supportive group, present with
them all the way to their destination.
Life is full of enough challenges and
obstacles, and you do not want to be
slowed down even further with all these
negative people that show at the
doorstep of your life. Time is important
and valuable enough and we do not
need anything to hinder us.

3. They Plant Positivity In Their Minds All
The Time
Positivityis such an important aspect of
life that some do not fully understand
the benefit of. It acts as the solution to
many problems, yet is either hard to
grab or is unnoticeable. Learn to always
wake up each morning with a smile
drawn on your face and a positive
thought in your head. This can kick
start your day with positivity, which
impacts your day in a good way and
allows you to be an achiever.
Moreover, sometimes we wake up with
these random, distressing thoughts.
However, by cautiously picking out the
correct words and actions, we can turn
these negative thoughts into positive
ones, thus overcoming potential
negativity. This is all within the mind
and you have control over your mind, A
morning meditation session, some
exercise, or a cup of coffee while
watching the television could do it.
4. They Fight Overthinking
It is within our nature to keep on
thinking about various things and
worrying about them. Are you that kind
of person, or do you just think of the
important things and let the other
inferior things aside? Well, either way,
you are not alone. We all tend to
overthink certain choices and decisions
in life. This can come from the fact that
we so desperately do not want to make
the wrong decisions; decisions that
could put us in a worst spot and leave
us disturbed. This can be a daily battle,
and more than that, an internal war.
Who does not want to limit the stress in
their lives and enjoy being happy all the
time? Happy people usually control
themselves and limit the things they
have on mind, because they know that
there are things that can affect other
more important aspects of life.
5. They Have A Clear Purpose
It is always a key to have a clear
purpose when setting goals because
setting goals is really important if you
want to achieve your goals. Happy and
successful people set their minds to
crystal clear goals that have a clear
purpose and value to them.
You want to provide your children with
the best life possible. You may want to
become healthy and fit. Whatever it is
you want to achieve, you need to plan
accurately and clearly for it. Begin with
setting mini goals and breaking down
your big goal down into several steps.
This will help make your goals clearer
and help you focus on them step by
step.
6. They Focus On Their Goals
Do you focus on the goals and dreams
you want to achieve or do you make
sure your plan goes according to what
you laid out earlier. Well, if you focus on
the plan and give it more importance
than what it needs, then we need to
think again. Plans are very important to
get you to where you want to be and
closer to your goals, but plans can
always change. Plans are made to be
followed and to be fixed, but sometimes
things happen and plans need to
change.
So, when this happens would you put
your hand on your cheeks and feel sad
because your plan is no longer working?
Or would you be proactive and actually
face the change and adapt accordingly
in an attempt to stay on track and
accomplish your goals. Do not let plans
ruin your chances of achieving your
goals for the simple fact that your plan
changed. Marriage, a successful career,
and kids are goals that should remain
constant no matter how you get to that
spot.
7. They Live In The
Present
A very important topic or aspect of
life and success in terms of
achieving dreams and whatever you
set your mind to do is to live in the
present. Are you such an individual,
or is all you are thinking about the
past and the mistakes you committed
at that time? Letting yourself off the
hook and letting go of the past is one
of the best things you could do.
Direct your effort to the important
things and always think of what you
can control, not what you cannot.
Whatever happened in the past is
something out of our reach and is
something we cannot change and so
thinking about it just makes matters
worse.
#BE POSITIVE ALWAYS

EFFECT OF TEENAGE PREGNANCY

Teenagers of today
neglected the principles of today’s live
which makes them view situations as it
pleases their chances while some are
being sticked by their faithfulness.

Some teenagers finds it difficult to cope
with the circumstances life offers. All
they bear in mind is to remain
choiceless at all time and accept the
wrongs.

Teenage pregnancy is one of the big
problem facing the society of today due
to sometimes ignorance and
carelessnes. My question to the parents
is: Are you training up your child in the
way he/she will grow positvely?

Teenage pregnancy mostly occures
when parents fails to play their vital role
in the family.

As a perent you have to be fully aware
of how your child socialize because that
child might be at the wrong track while
all you think always is how your office
will gonna end up, always remember
that God gave you both the job and
those children to do his wheel at all
times mind you how do you think God
will feel when you prove to him by
action that you don’t have time for the
children he has given you meanwhile
many are out there hunting for just one.

EFFECT OF TEEN PREGNANCY.

(1)DEPRESSION:
This may arise when a teenager is
pregnant, the teen may fall into a
depression while trying to handle the
emotions a pregnancy creates and all of
the possible negative gist/gossip friends
and some relation will be discussing.

(2)DELAY IN EDUCATION:
As well known education is one of the
best lagacy a child should keep but in
this case, her education maybe holdup
and maybe if she was planning to
attend college in future she might put
off that ideology because she have to
take good care of the baby which might
change her focus to rathe get married.
(3)MEDICAL COMPLICATION:
This often occurs in pregnant teenagers
according to the American Academy of
Children and Adolescent Psychiatry. Too
often teens do not seek adequate
medical care during the pregnancy
which will result in toxemia,
anemia,placenta pevia and premature
birth of the baby.
(4) SUICIDE:
When being pregnant at this very stage,
she might be thinking the whole world
is upon her which might also thing such
situation will never come to an end so
she might decide to terminate her life
journey.
It’s upto you to decide how to abstain
yourself from all this frustration and
makes your family, friends and the
society proud of you with this i also
plead to parent to amend their ways
and build a great family ever.

HOW TO EXPRESS YOUR EMOTION TO A SHY GIRL

Are you a shy girl? today reveal you.

Guys are sometimes fake, they  tend to
love a girl’s life style but lack the
boldness to stand before her due to
some circumstances which makes them
to stick to their freak imagination.

Nevertheless they seems to develop
some negative thoughts which at times
might discourage their confidence.
In approaching a shy girl, you have to
stick to the rules:

(1) Study and analyse her: Girls now
days are not certain, they tend to
possess some nasty action today and
can change in a tinkle of an eye.
Anyway analysing her in this aspect is to
know what mood is she and how does
she react when ever an opposite sex
tend to speak to her and then use that
to trap her.

2. Dress smart and responsible because
sometimes your appearance defines
you, remember she might be shy but
her sense of reasoning is intact.

3. Go to her, greet her in a well dignity
way and introduce yourself in a very
level headed and emotional manner
after which you give her a chance to do
hers as well.
Don’t ask many questions here even if
she lied pretend as if you don’t know
just to keep the flows in motion.

4. Never express your emotion
immediately because she might make
fool of you rather you take an alternate
step by asking for just a normal friends
which it will never gonna be hard for her
for her to accept.
Treat her more than a friend i mean
share your ideas and thoughts.

5. Keep her in an emotional journey,
keep her happy and always apologise
when ever your are wrong just to make
her not to think negative.
6. Always help with what you have
either financially or in anyway and don’t
pretend to be and have what you don’t,
rather you blend the sincerity in your
heart.

7. Always create talk time, fun time,
keep her entertain and do ask her out
once a while.
OMG!! After enduring and expressing all
this then you are good to go no matter
how shy this girl will gonna be, she will
gonna have no choice than to dance
with your tune.

7 WAYS TO KILL YOUR BOYFRIEND

True love is boundless, it’s eternal and a
reflection of your soul to dance in union
with the glory of yourself.
Without counting steps, looking back
and just singing the melody of your
heart.
True love is free, it does not possess
mistakes but here am gonna tell you
how to kill your boyfriend.

(1) BE FOCUSED:

Here i tell you when ever you tend to
loss focus in your relation as a lady, you
are having the high tendency of falling
apart, Your boyfriend noticed that you
lacked focus, he will use that as an
advantage to prank and play senseless
games with your heart so one way to
strick him down is to remain focus in
your own part…

(2) DANCE WITH HIS TUNE:

As it’s well known, nobody is perfect,
your boyfriend might be sometime
insane by doing the wrongs but how
can she control such situation. My dear
you don’t have to worry because the
only solution is to use your positive
actions or thoughts which comes with
force and kill his damn negativity.

(3) BE REAL:

You have no excuse of pretending to be
who you are not and you have to be
careful never allow people to define you
wrongly no matter the situation anyway
ladies this days are good in saying “Use
what you have to get what you want”
which is absolutely right but not in all
aspects rather you should view it in a
positive way.

(4) BE ROMANTIC:

This is one of the major dangerous
weapon in killing your boyfriend.
Anyway am not talking about sex but
moving to the responsible way when
ever you boyfriend is standing or sitting
he might be expecting something
romantic so why no give him a hug, kiss
or you should get to sit on his laps. OMG
never care what people will gonna say
about you because it’s certain that what
ever you do in life some will like you
while other will not.

(5)-ALWAYS COMMENT HIS GOOD
DOINGS:
This is one of the major point of long
lasting relationship point and at
sametime one of the weapon to towards
killing your boyfriend’s negative
thoughts because when ever you call
the attention of your boyfriend and
appreciate his good did just to keep his
moral boosting..

(6) LOYALTY:

Although everybody is having his/her
own way of viewing relationship
sometimes it’s the major source of
happy a relationship and also the
majour weapon in killing your
boyfriend’s negative actions.
How will you as a person gets someone
upset and to your greatest surprise that
same person you hurt comes to you and
ask for forgiveness while you know you
are at fault am sure you will gonna feel
weak OMG you can give it a try.
(7) HANGING OUT:
Hey friend don’t be deceived that you
as a lady you can’t take your boyfriend
out to catch fun just as some guys do
anyway it’s said that “what a man can
do a woman can do much better” my
dear reader you are damn free to take
him off for outing i think that will be
more fun because it will gonna surprise
those who are yet to move their
relationship from analog to digital…

WHAT HAVE I DONE

I always wonder what’s happening to

me when all
i experience is hardship, disgrace, false
news,
wrong people around. I always thought i
was
doing things the right way but now i
doubt my
doings. Am i really in my right senses?
it’s
quoted that everything happen for a
reason but
i wonder what track am i in right
now……. Life is
not a certain circumstance cause at
anytime it
will surprise you on what negative or
positive
situation are you. When life set you up,
there are
few ways to make it pleased you…..

(1)-RE-THINK OF YOUR PAST: It’s well known
that the
best way of making life easy is to think
of the
mistakes you did at your past which led
you to
regret and learn positively from it…..

(2)- FOCUS:
0ne engage him/her self in different
problems in
life and later regretting this occur
simply
because he/she failed to work with the
valuable principles of life…..

(3)- SELF
DETERMINATION: No matter the
situation you are
facing in life, never give up rather face
the
challenges and strick to positivity which
led to
success…..

(4)- MAKE TIME FOR PEOPLE WITH
POTENTIALS: Hanging around with
people who
never value their goals and potentials
can only
bring you down instead of boosting and
challenging each other….
(5)- MENTORSHIP: Do
you have a mentor , someone you will
be proud to
say you wanna be like

BORN TO SUCCESS

As a young writer, i have been to
different places, met different
people, engaged in different
activities. For years i learnt
from people, situations and my
experiences i mean different
lessons that today controls,
guide and direct my attempts
in life. Many people today are living
their lives in fear, they tend to execute the
characteristics of the decay slaves, Many are
tired of being broked, tired of being
disrespected, tired of being stressed, tired of
being disgraced by our immediate juniors and
some are tired of being embarrassed by friends
and wish to be justify by the realm of success.

No human is born with any emotion include fear.
Emotions (Fear) are produced base on
expectations, perceptions and mindset. Many of
us are very much involved in the present we
devout too much of our attention thinking and
concern to our today, we allow un-necessary
circumstances to take advantage of personality,
we much depend on quotations made by our
ancestors which flavor has been exusted better
still have no relationship with today's
generational change.

No one is perfect, no one
does everything right and never make mistake or
get things wrong. We all have our weaknesses,
shortcomings and limitations. Success contained
two certain element which include; -The Word
and -The Action.

My good friends don't just
restrict yourself to the word rather to the action
as well for action speaks louder than voice as my
mentor will always say "I life, nothing really goes
for nothing, everything comes with a reason and
a price tag -Muyiwa afolabi"
-Keep striving,
-Keep pursuing,
-Keep moving,
-Keep pushing.
It's all
about chances and determination. Thanks and
have a good day.

MY NIGERIA WOMAN

Action speaks when it glue with
the nature of the African music
which tend to stick the potentiality
of her moves minding her steps
towards magnificent attributes.

In the creeks of the deltas,
Dwells a Nigerian woman
whose beauty is majestic,
sparkling and open minded,
she speaks with the voice of
leisure better still she seems
to dance with the jingle of culture
for she's born to rule her
little world of justice and
faithfulness.

Her bed is of straw and grasses
nestled under a mat of raffia but
comfort is not of the essence. She
tend to oppress her fellow with her
Alluring nature of dresses for she
stands on collections and walk on
the platform of respect.

She travel miles to portrait her
peace to the world and still retain
her self personality for she walk
on principles to avoid constrains.
Nevertheless her kitchen tend to
retain about 45% of her time for
never to dis obey the structure of culture.

Her skin shines to make her real
for she flow to blend with the white
for racism is never a point to stay
in her life journey for her mystery
mind is confidential.
 (THIS IS MY NIGERIAN WOMAN)

BORN NOT TO CRITICISE

I don't post for you
to gain pleasure
out of my words but
to see the truth in it
and filter your portion

#MEANING!
You don't have to show
the world that you are
born in the realm of
criticism, we ought
and filled up with greed
that we just don't
want people to say
their minds rather
we tend to influence
their decision just
to say what will
suit and pleasured our
desire.
When they talk, we
criticise.
When they choose not
to talk, we still criticise.
When they stay, we
criticise and when
they walk away we
still criticise.
If so then what else do
we expect?
Dear friends,
i just want to let you
know that life is not just
a race but an individual
race. Everyone has
his/her mission and
vision, for what might
be good to you at a time
might be bad as well
to others, you strived
the wrong goal, you
point  fingers on that
young man or woman
in the village trying to make
life simple. Hmmm!
Remember no one can
predict tomorrow better
still death is inevitable
for no one can bribe his
ways not to die. You
might be a victim reading
my post.
stop the criticism and make
life better for the next
coming generation of yours.

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HAPPY MARRIED LIFE

Anytime i see your pre-wedding 
pictures, to marry go just the hungry me....
Big sis (LARAI) from my heart, 
imagination infact even from my 
dream i always wish you a happy 
married life....

You shall always become be an example 
and your kabal go always be where 
generation mothers will always look 
upto in other to correct the miserably 
life...
Naso you go the born, born pikins 
like water till God say make you stop..