7 THINGS EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW ABOUT MEN

Men and women are created differently
by God.
Things that matter a lot to women don’t
matter as
much to men and vice versa, for the
most part.

Theories about men’s behavior have
evolved based on
studies conducted on men aged 18 to
22. Women
often complain that men’s behavior
seems odd to
them. Here are a few things women
should know
about men:

•ACTIONS SPEAKS LOUDER THAN
WORDS:
Men cannot read minds and they are
not as
expressive as most women are. Tell your
man what
you want and he will try to give you
that. Stop
expecting him to understand and fulfill
your
expectations on his own.
Tell him what you expect and want. For
example if
you want him to surprise you with a
special date
tell him you love it when he surprises
you with a
date.

•MEN WANT TO BE RESPECTED:
Men expect respect in public and in
private. They
excel when they know you trust and
admire them.
They want respect more than love. If
you respect
them, they will respect you, and will try
to
maintain that respect. After all, respect
is
something that can only be earned.
Shaunti
Feldhahn, nationally syndicated
newspaper
columnist, author, and speaker, showed
research
that shows men would rather withstand
loss of
loving feelings from their partners than
to lose
their respect.

•THEY ARE INSECURE:
Men are sensitive when it comes to their
role in
life, whether at work or at home as a
father and
husband. They are internally secretly
vulnerable,
which they will rarely admit. A woman
should
acknowledge her husband’s role which
makes him
more confident and secure. If you stop
giving him
affirmation he is likely to seek it
somewhere else.

•YOU DON’T NEED TO LOOK PERFECT:
It’s not necessary to always look like an
actress or
model, men like it simple and natural. If
he loves
you he is going to love at your worst.
You don’t
need to change your personality and
looks to
please him. Be yourself and he will
appreciate you
and your inner beauty. It is flattering to
take time
to dress up a little for special dates, so
keep
doing that, but you don’t need to spend
a lot of
time to get ready to go to the store.
•MEN NEED SPACE TOO:
Sometimes women become overly
solicitous and get
too involved so that men feel suffocated.
If your guy
is asking for some space don’t take it
personally,
he actually just needs space, it doesn’t
have
anything to do with you or your
relationship.
Taking time for yourself to do your own
thing is
healthy, you should enjoy some alone
time too.

•SELECTIVE HEARING:
Studies show men and women usually
have
different interests when it comes to
conversation
topics, women often talk about love,
relationships,
and other people while men find these
topics
boring, they appreciate ideas and
productive
topics. If you want a productive
conversation
discuss topics that interest both of you.