LIVE BEYOND YOUR FEAR

As a writer, i have been to
different places, met different
people, engaged in different
activities. For years i learnt
from people's situation and
experiences i mean different
lessons that controls, guide
and direct my attempts in life
but the problem i have with
some individuals is the "motion
of fear"

  Many people today are living in
fear they tend to execute the
characteristic of the decade slaves

  Many are tired of being broke,
tired of being depressed, tired
of being stressed, tired of being
disgraced by their younger once
and some are tired of being
embarrassed by friends and
wish to be justify by success.

  No human is born with any
form of fear for this emotion
are produced base on expectation,
perceptions and mindset.

  Many of us are much involved in
the present, we devout too much
on our attention, thinking and
concern with our today. We
depend on false ideologies
and false thoughts of BC
and AD, we compare our distance
 journey with others whom
we have no idea on how
they ascertain to be where
they are presently.
Face your own story and
Make your little world
A paradise one can

Admire.

DEAR LADIES

i just want
to remind you that
He’s not perfect. You
aren’t either, and the
two of you will never
be perfect. But if he can
make you laugh at least
once, causes you to think
twice, and if he admits to
being human and making
mistakes, hold onto
him and give him the most
you can. He isn’t
going to quote poetry, he’s
not thinking about
you every moment, but he
will give you a part of
him that he knows you could
break. Don’t hurt
him, don’t change him, and
don’t expect for
more than he can give.
Don’t analyze. Smile
when he makes you happy,
yell when he makes
you mad, and miss him
when he’s not there. Love
hard when there is love to
be had. Because perfect guys
don’t exist, but there’s always
one guy that is perfect for you.

SPEAKING IN PUBLIC

One of the major aspect of life is how

you blend and speak in public.

Some individuals finds it difficult to

express and socialize themselves in

public simply because the fail to

understand the principles on how to

speak in public which sometime hinders

their positive contribution.

No doubt as it’s well said that nobody is

perfect but what step are you taking

towords improving yourself.

Here are some reasons why some in

individual fail to speak in public.

(1) FEAR OF POINT CONDEMNATION:

Although it’s well known that what ever

you do in life some will like it while

others will not but anyway we all learn

from our mistakes therefore never allow

someone to take your anxiety when you

wish to speak.

(2) FEAR OF USING WRONG WORDS:

Some people think a statement without

grammers is never complete but here i

prove you wrong because the main

quality of a statement is the point you

make.

It’s better you hit the nail on the head

by expressing the normal words you do

know and communicate sensibly.

PUBLIC SPEAKING

(3) COMPLAISANT: This is one of the

negative effect of not speaking in public

because must individuals always speaks

what will please others without minding

their point of communication to others

around which in absence of those they

pleased, they can’t speak anymore.

(4) APPROACH: Here sometimes the

approach you give to people determines

your mystery speech and at sametime

gives people the zeal to pay more

attention to what you say.

(5) MANNERS: When speaking in public,

the way you behave matters alot for

example you are holding a cigerette at

hand in public and at sametime you are

telling somebody taking cigerette is not

good, expressing such manner in public

while doing the wrong alone condemns

your speech.

NOTE=> Where ever you find yourself

never fail to express your real self cause

it’s better to be corrected by a wise

than to be praise by a fool.