Many people today tend to wonder why does the division of class in the society also affects the relationship cycle. We asked questions and all we could hear is that BECAUSE YOU'RE POOR.
No doubt that we all want to live a luxury life as a poor man you don't mind getting married to the daughter of the most richest man in Africa. This isn't the main, we all see opportunities and not expenses. But the question is why does the rich marries the poor.
1. THE MEETING POINT: It'll interest you to note that all rich ladies and guys have their own meeting point, anybody found there is considered to be a rich or coming from a wealthy background. This meeting point can be a relaxation centre, Luxury clubs, Private Universities, shopping malls and companies where they work. These are some of the meeting point where the poor can not afford to step in, so if you can't afford this, how then can you meet him/her talk more of establishing relationship?
2. STATUS QUO: Any rich guy/lady you find today always strive to maintaining their status quo. No individual from a wealthy background wants to downgrade himself financially just to match up the standard of the poor. As such they tend to find who has an equal standard so as to maintain the status.
3. PARENTAL INFLUENCE: Most wealthy parents sees the poor as goal diggers. in fact how can a father who has invested a lot on his child, allows him to go marry a poor jobless person who scripturizes every opportunity that come his way in the name of love. They feel insecure, contemptuous, amidst their fellow and sometimes view it as mockery of the century, as such they strive to see they influence the best.
4. GENERATIONAL TREND: Some wealthy persons desire to keep their name trending even after leaving this world. They make sure they influence themselves to creating more attention through their children. Eg some always make their ways to royalty by giving out their children to people who has the blood of royalty flowing in their vain. This has nothing to do with the poor as the case may be.
5. GIVE AND TAKE: This simply means wealthy parents always give out their Sons/Daughters to the rich in exchange for something. This can be a business deal that may arise between the family, to compliment such, the put their children as part of the condition to sealing those deals.
6. FEAR IN ALL RAMIFICATIONS: The rich has this believe that poverty is a decease that affects one even psychologically.
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